Crushing your Crushes
Crushes can happen to anyone at anytime of their life, it's so wrong to think crushes only happen to young giggly girls or blushing boys...mature & stable executives also have their fair share of crushes...whether it's someone they met at their workplace, buses/mrts or churches...Some crushes morph into a steady relationship and end up happily married, which is good...happens to ms practical ....at least this crush has a good outcome.
It so happen that a few girlfriends talked about their encounters with crushes..i'm surprised to find out that ms flower has a crush on a fellow colleague. She was at first very bothered & upset over why this has to happen to her (and i've never see her like this before gushing abt how this guy is this & that), cos she's not one who'll easily fall for someone & *ahem...got hitched legally already. From the start, she handled the entire situation honestly (yes, to her other half...bravo!), tactfully & with lots of self-control as she was adamant on crushing this crush.
ms "eat-grass" crush was more straight-forward, she met this guy while on a project..sounds promising & all, we all harboured hopes that maybe it could develop into a meaningful relationship for her WHEN .....................this guy has got BGR problem & develop a mid-life crisis thus decide to 'adopt' a bad boy image aka go party, drive sports car (?!?!)....that's when the decision is made for THE CRUSH to be crushed!
so of course it's hard to get over our crushes immediately & spontaneously, so we need to come up with solutions to get over it!We also discussed about whether we prefer for the crush to crush itself1 or we crush the crush2 (refer to definition if lost).
Definition
1.crush to crush itself - the guy actually did something 'duh' to make us cross him off our list
2.we crush the crush - WE NEED to do something to cross him off our list...
anyway, my preferred crushing technique is to concentrate on his bad points, i.e stare at his long, protruding nose hairs or focus on certain traits that you dont like about him e.g. he likes to go for private "Ixxxxx"(shopping centre) sale, adopting a bad boy image when he's not (this is definitely uncool)...
bound to work if u focus on CRUSHING THE CRUSH
posted by Ling @ 5:21 pm
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