Dates & Non-dates
What constitutes a date & what doesn't? In fact, definition varies from person to person quite widely. My take on date is that it must be planned for & both parties interested in checking out each other. Other than that, does it count? friendly dinners/lunches, count as date? talking abt work extended to coffee & drinks, counted as date? catching up with old frens or flames over dinner, counted as date? apparently some counted them as dates as along as you are with an opposite gender...Sometimes i hate being on dates, maybe it's becos i felt obliged to be nicer (if the guy is paying..HAHA!) and talk more if there's a longer bout of silence...i dont particular enjoy dates esp when the "aloof side of me" tends to be a bit more guarded about my inner feelings & not very willing to share certain info, which definitely impedes progress of any possible relationships.
On the positive value of dates, they can be a yardstick of measuring your market value and making sure that you are still the available & attractive single you still hope to be!
posted by Ling @ 2:50 pm
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