Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Gosh, its been 12 weeks

12 weeks! JY has barely crossed the 3-mths milestone and it seems ages ago since i popped her out. There was so much to learn and i grossly underestimated & often reprimanded myself for not reading & preparing for parenthood, my focus was very much on the pregnant state & did not give much attention to what next...... After a few books, much internet & friends exchange, did i realise another world on parenthood.

My status of being a mother has narrowed my social life, increased my family bonding time, re-prioritised my needs. Now, i can barely stepped out of the house without thinking of how my little one is doing and my mind is constantly thinking of hurrying to do my errands and rush back to her.

Likewise, PWJ has his hands tied at work, having to scrap enough time for JY & me, after settling his work & studies. Now, we do not have the the luxury of time & leisure and plan our get-aways so easily,always having to work within a 2-hrs window period of between feeds. We have only brought JY out once, to United Square when she's just 1.5mths and i was like a walking zombie. Ever since her bouts of crying frenzy, we swore never brought her out until she is at least 3mths old.

1 Comments:

At 11:50 pm, Blogger Garden Eden said...

Wow, 3 mths already? I can't believe it too. I can still remember vividly how tough it was to leave Eliza at home while I run errands. For sure, window shopping became a thing of the past :) You will realise you start to shop like a man :)

 

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