Bubble

time to let it out

Actually i wanted to meet up with my friends and announce like a happy bride-to-be (while clapsing my hands with batting eyelids) "I am Getting Married!'...somehow that doesn't gel very well with me..i scratched my head & debated whether should i just call and tell 'eh, i'm getting married leh...', sound so weird too...THEN i considered doing it over MSN or blog about it..but no la, no go too. In the end, i kept quiet for 2 weeks, didn't meet up with anyone over dinner becos of the piling workload. Even the bing-bling on my hand was undiscovered (only 1 colleague noticed, other s discovered it much later cos i was too conscious of it was sometimes was hiding it!! i dunno, look so strange on my hand)

Firstly i stubbornly refused to do any preparation because WJ hasn't proposed..Like some pple might say, i was dying to get married.........i was rather upset of the 'long drought' of inactivity of actions because i dun see a good reason of the procrastination....Now, i am not that excited & enthusiastic like i tink i should be.

Now, i full of bitter water...why? The date : 2 June to change my marital status. well...1.5mths away, tell me who in the world prepared to be ROM in such a short time?!? (except for those shotguns wedding...which again...was also one of the questions i got from my friends) ok, nevermind still have time rite? start now. but wait a minute..look at my bloody schedule!
(AND i have warn him earlier that i hv my volunteer project that will take a chunk of my time, so better let me know earlier so can spread out my time well.)
My work takes me till 7-8pm at night 4 out of 5 days a week & WJ cannot come out of camp. so weekdays' plannings are out. only left 6 precious weekends left...

21-22 apr : OUT! cos i m going on a recce trip to Ho Chi Minh from 19 - 22 in prep for the actual one
28-29 apr: HALF OUT! 28 - Rakan Raleigh Rockclimbing session. 29 evening - Tery Mun's wedding
ONLY available weekend 5 - 6 may
12-13 may: HALF OUT! 12 - MDMW Awards & Rakan Raleigh Kayaking Session
19-20 may: OUT! Actual Trip to Ho Chi Minh from 16 - 20 may.
26-27 may: HALF OUT! 26 - May Kayaking session.
2 June : ROM ( i have a 2 days camp scheduled during that weekend)

Where got pple get married among this kind of schedule wan? i can see my spa/manicure/pedicure/nice glowing skin kissing me goodbye & flying away. hopefully i wun be a sunburnt, grouchy & tired-looking bride....

sometimes when i get a little time to plan the wedding, i was quite light hearted,happy & cheerful. But whenever i was reminded of the short schedule i have, my mood will just change drastically & i will just sulked...ARRRRRRRRRRRRRR

posted by Ling @ 11:45 pm 3 comments

Woman After 30

Ok, by right i'm not 30 yet...there are so many things i said i will do not do...whether 30 or not

1. Grow Fat
2. Put on Make-up to Work
3. Eat & Snack in office
4. Not Exercise & Learn new sports

Horrors horrors...instead

1. I grew fat..my spare tire can fit a lorry instead of a car
2. I started to put make-up to work, not ur foundation & blusher kind.. more i only put eye make-up to work now! concealer, eye shadow & the eye liner!!now i cant do without it..i look like a ghost or a punched up panda. (i proudly announce that my fine motor skills of 'eyelining' has improved)
3. And Von is my partner in crime
4. Work is simply too tough now to gym or run...i barely have time now to lunch, and going home on time is a luxury. weekends are spend resting as much possible & sometimes i even worked on weekends.damn .. my work-life balance rule i held since ssc days are thrown out of the window.

Ok, there's one more thing i missed...that's going clubbing..been a while since i last enjoyed myself, it's still Ms P's hen party...terymun's hen party shld be a scream too...

ohhhhh.....that day HPA held a briefing session for their svc pdrs at NTUC. one of my NTUC colleague was invited, she went down & said the 2 guys in WA are cute...CUTE! i nearly fell off my chair when she said that....

posted by Ling @ 10:39 pm 1 comments